How do children get
support and recover?
Children and young people are not passive in the face of
technology-facilitated sexual exploitation and abuse. Even within
environments that are often unsafe or unsupportive, they continuously
make decisions, act and look for ways to navigate harm and support one
another. Blocking perpetrators, seeking support, warning friends, reporting
harmful content, or disclosing abuse are all expressions of agency and
resilience. These actions show that children are not defined solely by the
harm they experience, but also by the ways they attempt to regain safety,
control and support.
Interviews with survivors show how agency often appears in small but
important acts of self-protection. One girl in Mexico who was coerced into
sending intimate images at the age of 14 described choosing a platform
with a “view-once” function in the hope that the perpetrator would not
be able to save her images. Such decisions reflect the constrained ways
children attempt to reduce harm within situations shaped by coercion
and unequal power.
Children also exercise agency collectively. Friends, siblings and peers were
often the first people children turned to, for emotional support, advice, or
help seeking justice. Some young people described finding strength through
feminist movements and public conversations about online violence, which
helped them recognize that what happened to them was abuse – not
something they deserved, nor something they should carry alone.
Through Children’s Eyes
How do children get support and recover?
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